canada goose uk outlet Orangedilemma u canada goose uk outlet
Canada Goose Outlet science_nurd 1 point submitted 16 days ago Canada Goose Outlet
Here the issue though. My entire personality revolves around academia. All canada goose coats uk my life, my parents have effectively taught me to „hate” all activities that are not academic. As a result, the only real thing I like is science and engineering. I disappointing my parents by not committing to school. How will I ever be of use? I love geopolitics but I also hate public speaking and debating. All those factors together made me cheap canada goose new york faint in the middle of the debate.
uk canada goose I also tried a few sports but I got canada goose expedition parka black friday so hazed https://www.buchholz-net.de to the cheap Canada Goose point where canada goose outlet toronto factory people were telling me to commit suicide on a regular basis. IDK if they were joking, but being autistic, I took it legit. I literally scared to death of any sports. Like, literally. Not figuratively, literally. uk canada goose
I also part of the Chess Club, but I play so competitively to the point where I hate it now. I used to love it but the pressure from my parents to get me to the world wide tournaments was insane. I couldn take it. I broke down and now hate chess.
As you suggested, I also tried drawing, and I got so frustrated at myself to the point where I started cutting myself. Why aren my lines straight enough? How do I know what colours to use? There no standardised procedure? What do I do now? What the objective? There is no roadmap at all! This pressure got to me really hard and that was the first time I cut myself. gaming software, and a concept for a new rocket engine.
buy canada goose jacket Yes, I need help. Like lots of help. buy canada goose jacket
dandyduff 8 points submitted 15 days ago
Yes to this! Unconventional personality traits are ridiculously attractive to me, both in social and romantic relationships.
canadian goose jacket I believe that when a person unapologetically embraces their weird canada goose outlet or awkward traits, that they in turn come off as so confident that the whole thing works to their advantage and attracts people to them. Everyone has canada goose outlet in vancouver something they hide in fear of coming off as a weirdo, but imagine how fun and unique conversations could be if we just all embraced that? canadian goose jacket
canada goose black friday sale dimdimthelesser 41 points submitted 16 days ago canada goose black friday sale
This is more of a question to the people in this thread but, my dad constantly yells at me, while my mom yells less but says more hurtful things. I only 16 it been going on for a Canada Goose Coats On Sale long time but is there anything I can do to stop the loneliness that arises as a result? Currently going through a bout of this after just literally minutes ago being yelled at for not putting the dishes in the dishwasher. How will this effect me if I dont seek help, whether professional or from friends?
apertxre11 3 points submitted 1 month ago
I’m starting a new job in a few weeks. My last 2 didn’t work out. I try hobbies but everything bores me. I can’t tell if it’s bc of depression or if i’m just like this. I usually go to like 2 sessions of therapy then stop bc I’m scared that I’m being annoying or that they’ll think there’s nothing wrong with me and they’re wasting their time. Or scared of not making progress and disappointing them. But I do have a problem with feeling like I need to impress everyone. :/
Orangedilemma 1 point submitted 1 month ago
I’m in therapy. My therapist has addressed both your concerns. You’re not being annoying, they’re literally there to listen to you and help you navigate your life. It’s their job, they are not wasting their time. My therapist said pretty much most people could use a little therapy, so the „they’ll think there’s nothing wrong with me” is irrelevant.
buy canada goose jacket cheap You think these things because you have a low self esteem. You don’t think you deserve to live the best life you can, maybe subconciously and so you keep letting it pass you by and watch others live their lives. This is your life, take responsibility. You have just as much right to be here and to participate actively and do things you love and learn to make connections with others and be happier. Why should you impress everyone? Why shouldn’t they impress you? Why are you at the bottom of the totem pole? You deserve to work through this and get better. Consider therapy again. buy canada goose jacket cheap
Also helpful tip! If you have a hard time finding places to meet people and you’re a girl, try bumble BFF! I made a lot of friends that way and it’s not awkward to ask to hang out or anything cuz canada goose black friday deals everyone’s there for that reason 🙂 Don’t put too much pressure on yourself though, just have fun and if you don’t like the person, move on to the next.
canada goose [deleted] 1 point submitted 1 month ago canada goose
The first thing that jumped out at me when Reading your story is your choice of profession. Social Work requires canada goose baby uk you to live in another’s skin. You are obviously making this about you. canada goose outlet black friday You cannot and I repeat, you cannot make anything about you. Social work is about helping victims and you cannot help them if you are a victim. What you need to work on is leverage your experience in order to empathize otherwise look for a desk job.
canada goose uk black friday What you went through is pure unadulterated trauma. What Black people been through is 4000 years of pure unadulterated trauma genetically ingrained as psychological sequalae. You cannot and should not compete with that. Who do you think built this whole world as slaves? You need to look deep in you because when a rape victim comes to you for help they need 100% of your help not your pain. In fact you cannot express your pain canada goose uk black friday
There is a lot wrong with this. She, as a matter of fact, has been through more trauma than the average person her age, white or black. Have some sympathy and stop thinking of everything as a competition.
This is coming from a person of color who has been through racism and discrimination: You need to have more compassion as a human being. Think deeply about what you are saying and how you are affecting someone who has been through very real abuse.
Canada Goose Jackets The average person probably doesn’t have flashbacks or nightmares or severe PTSD like survivors of abuse do and have to deal with on a daily basis. How dare you tell her that her experience is less than? The average person her age does not deal with the things she deals with simply because they have not been through it in their lifetime. I gurantee you if you have not been through child/sexual abuse, you are not going through an experience anywhere near what she’s going through just because you’re black. She CAN compete with the average black (or white!) kid in the „opression olympics” and win Canada Goose Jackets.
